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It seems like a case of people talking past each other, because they have different goals. So if this were a debate about COVID-19 measures, for instance, person A could be advocating for a lockdown, citing the need to 'save lives'. Person B could be advocating against lockdowns, citing the need to 'preserve the economy'. If person A presented their argument, it'd be fine for person B to explain why their goal is more important...as long as they explain why. As in, it would still have to be a counter to the original argument - either accepting that X is important, but less so than Y, or demonstrating that X actually isn't all that important. This way, both people in the conversation could advance different goals while still responding to one another - talking to, rather than past, each other. If they didn't, and simply tried to avoid the subject, this would fall under red herring. |
answered on Sunday, Feb 13, 2022 01:30:06 PM by TrappedPrior (RotE) | |
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